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Questions from Bible Readers: Marriage
Whether you're currently married, or thinking about getting married, the Bible reveals the secrets to a happy, successful marriage. With so many men and women "falling out of love" with each other in marriage, it's crucial you know what God says about marriage—and how highly He values it.
What does a healthy, successful marriage look like?
• It's a partnership. Genesis 2:18-23
• It forgives. Exodus 32:11-14
• It loves—forever. Song of Solomon 8:5-7
• It mirrors the love of God. Hosea 14:4-8
• It's a team effort. Acts 18
• It's focused and committed. Hebrews 13:4
What does it really mean to "become one" with my spouse?
• You realize it requires both union and separation. Genesis 2:18-25
• You accept your spouse's family as your own. Ruth 1:15-18
• You feel each other's pain and joy. 1 Corinthians 12:12-31
How does God define my role as a wife?
• To be godly in attitude and actions. Proverbs 31:10-31
• To be wise, godly, and cheerful—no matter what. Ecclesiastes 7:11-14
• To think of your husband before yourself. Colossians 3:15-19
How can I prevent financial issues from becoming stumbling blocks in my marriage?
• Grow a generous personality. Psalm 49:16-20
• Make giving to God your top priority. Malachi 3:8-12
• Treasure your spouse. Matthew 6:19-24
• Don't focus too much on finances. 1 Timothy 6:6-10
• Don't fall in love with money. Hebrews 13:5, 6
I'm falling out of love with my spouse (and he with me), and I'm tempted to have an affair. What would be the harm?
• Don't bow to temptation. Genesis 39
• Don't repay evil for evil. Hosea 2:2-8; 3:1-3
• Realize looking is as wrong as acting. Matthew 6:27, 28
• Use your body to honor God. 1 Corinthians 6:12-20
Why does the Bible talk about submission in marriage? What does God mean by it?
• Submission is an issue for both husbands and wives. Ephesians 5:21-23
• What's most important is doing what's best for each other. Philippians 2:1-11
• Mutual submission leads to a peaceful home life. Proverbs 17:1
How can my spouse and I grow spiritually as a couple?
• Learn to grow deeper. Hebrews 5:11-6:3
• Enjoy and use your God-given differences. 1 Peter 4:8-11
• Support each other as you grow together. Galatians 6:1-3
How can I lead my unbelieving spouse to Christ without offending him/her?
• Keep doing what's right and leave the rest to God. Genesis 39; 41:39
• Keep reaching for your spouse. Song of Solomon 2:16-3:4
• Show your spouse grace, humility, and unconditional love. John 13:1-17
• Win your spouse over by what you do. 1 Peter 3:1-6
• Show your spouse your hope of eternity. Revelation 21:9-22:21
My spouse doesn't share my passion for spiritual things. How can I deal with my frustration and sadness?
• Ask believing friends for help. Job 6:14-21
• Practice patience. James 5:7-11
• Remember God himself will wipe away your tears. Revelation 21:1-4
What's essential for a healthy, rewarding sex life?
• Recognize that sex is a gift from God. Genesis 1:27-31
• Use passionate words. Song of Solomon 5:10-16
• Keep practicing. Keep talking. 1 Corinthians 7:1-5
What does God think about divorce?
• Divorce is cruel. Malachi 2:13-16
• God's original design is for marriage—for a lifetime. Matthew 19:1-9
• God wants you to be at peace with each other. 1 Corinthians 7:10-16
• God emphasizes unity. Ephesians 4:1-6
How can I learn to forgive my spouse even when there's no apology?
• Choose to forgive. Jeremiah 33:1-9
• Let Jesus help you tear down walls of discord. Ephesians 2:14-18
• Remember your feelings matter to God. 1 Peter 3:8-15
My spouse is emotionally distant. How can I feel closer to him/her?
• Resist closing yourself off. Proverbs 3:27-35
• Keep trusting God's power and goodness. Zephaniah 3:16, 17
• Tell your spouse the truth with love. Ephesians 4:14-16
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